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Guard Your Heart

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.
- Unknown

This is a quote that has been attributed to Frank Jackson, a cowboy in the late 19th century. Jackson was orphaned at a young age and began life working simply and honestly for a tinsmith. He then became aquainted with a man named Sam Bass and under his influence “reluctantly” joined Sam’s gang of train and bank robbers. By 1878 all in the gang were dead or arrested except Jackson, by then known as Frank Outlaw, who escaped as the lone survivor. Outlaw remained a fugitive, wanted for the murders of two deputy sheriffs, for the rest of his life. In his later years he is claimed to have been repentent and “wanted to get square with the law,” but he never did.

The evidence is not strong that these words were actually his, but they sure fit his life. Frank Outlaw’s tragic destiny was set in motion by his thoughts and actions at a young age. A likely inspiration for this quote are the words of English novelist, Charles Reade (1814-1884), “Sow an act, and you reap a habit. Sow a habit, and you reap a character. Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.”

The Bible puts it this way:

Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.
Keep your mouth free of perversity;
keep corrupt talk far from your lips.
Let your eyes look straight ahead;
fix your gaze directly before you.
Give careful thought to the paths for your feet
and be steadfast in all your ways.
Do not turn to the right or the left;
keep your foot from evil.
Proverbs 4:23-27

Guard your heart. Your heart forms your thoughts and your destiny follows your thoughts. Like a row of dominoes, the first one you tip makes all the difference.

Control, Influence and Everything Else

This post was provided by guest blogger Glenn Hoff, Rochester, NY Deputy Police Chief (ret.) and author of Guardian Leadership.

I was asked to provide a short answer to the question, “What is the best police career advice you have ever received?” My immediate reaction was that this was a great question and that I was going to have a very hard time forming a short answer. As I thought about the things that I learned from my mentors over the years and in an attempt to give an appropriate answer for any career path in policing, this is what I came up with…

Like everything else in life, your success and your actions are governed by your mental attitude, what you choose to focus on and how you choose to look at those things. The power of the mind and the control you choose to exercise over it cannot be overemphasized. What things should you focus on? Everything can be divided into 3 areas or spheres: those things you control, those things you influence and everything else.

 Things You Control

There are only two things that we control in our careers; our integrity and our work ethic. Integrity is key in policing. It’s too big a topic to discuss in detail here but the bottom line is that you need to be vigilant in living your Oath and Values. There is nothing worth sacrificing your integrity for and the ends never justify the means. You need to develop a strong ethical decision-making process and apply it consistently.

We absolutely control our work ethic. The attitude and effort we bring to the job everyday is ours alone. Focusing within causes us to constantly examine ourselves and take steps to shore up our weaknesses and improve our knowledge and competencies. This prepares us to take advantage of career opportunities when they present. When we get disappointed (and we will) an inward focus prepares us to do better next time rather than accept defeat by blaming something outside ourselves.

 Things You Influence

Understand the things you influence. We influence everyone we come in contact with through our words and actions. In essence this process of influencing others is leadership and we have a responsibility to our Departments and ourselves to present a positive image. You can never not lead. People are always watching and you are always influencing. The relationships you build can contribute to your success and certainly the level of satisfaction you will have in your career.

 Everything Else

We can’t afford to focus on things that we neither influence or control. Spending time on these things only builds frustration and a victim mindset. Instead choose to focus on what you can do. If we are truly concerned about something that is beyond our control we might choose to do some contingency planning – but in that effort we are in fact seizing control.

When addressing new recruit classes as a Deputy Chief I used to hand out index cards and ask each of them to write on the card how they felt that first day and answer the question of why they wanted to be a police officer? In the end I told each of them to keep the card somewhere safe so that they could refer back to it when things weren’t going as they planned. There are few careers where you will experience the extreme highs and lows of policing but there are fewer more noble.

Robert E. Lee and the Abuse of Principle

This was provided by guest blogger Jack Marshall, author of Ethics Alarms, one of my favorite blogs.

As both political parties and the President of the United States seem to be determined to subject the American people, economy and standing in the world to disaster in the defense of principles, it might be a good time to reflect on the fact that principles detached from reality have little value, and that rigidly adhering to principles to the detriment of the community and civilization is not a virtue.

In the current issue of Humanities, historian James Cobb makes these points vividly, if tangentially, while reflecting on the odd reverence with which Americans, and not just Southerners, regard Robert E. Lee. I am proud to say that the lionization of Lee never made sense to me, not even when I was a small boy. But he is the epitome of someone who is revered as a role model and hero for his supposed character and values rather than what he actually did with them.*

Cobb begins his essay with this anecdote:

“After President Dwight D. Eisenhower revealed on national television that one of the four “great Americans” whose pictures hung in his office was none other than Robert E. Lee, a thoroughly perplexed New York dentist reminded him that Lee had devoted “his best efforts to the destruction of the United States government” and confessed that since he could not see “how any American can include Robert E. Lee as a person to be emulated, why the President of the United States of America should do so is certainly beyond me.” Eisenhower replied personally and without hesitation, explaining that Lee was, “in my estimation, one of the supremely gifted men produced by our Nation. … selfless almost to a fault … noble as a leader and as a man, and unsullied as I read the pages of our history. From deep conviction I simply say this: a nation of men of Lee’s caliber would be unconquerable in spirit and soul. Indeed, to the degree that present-day American youth will strive to emulate his rare qualities … we, in our own time of danger in a divided world, will be strengthened and our love of freedom sustained.”

Amazing. Not just a man “of Lee’s caliber,” but Robert E. Lee himself, was directly responsible for the death of hundreds of thousands of men (between 600,000 and 700,000, to be more accurate), the maiming of many more and the devastation of a nation in defense of an institution, slavery, that is and was morally and ethically indefensible. What good were those “rare qualities” of character if they did not guide Lee away from the worst decision of his life, and one of the worst decisions of anyone’s life? No one is good “in theory.” Abstract goodness isn’t goodness at all, but only posturing. Principles are vital as constants to guide us through the chaos of life, but allowing them to send us, our community or our nation tumbling off a cliff or plunging into the sun is not ethical, intelligent, or forgivable.

Accepting that Robert E. Lee possessed fine ideals and a sterling character, we should use his sad life as a warning, not a model. It is easy for me to see that, as I frequently pass by (as well as visit, since both of my parents are buried there) Arlington National Cemetery, which is just a few miles from where I live. The cemetery was originally Robert E. Lee’s estate, and was converted into a burial ground by Brig. Gen. Montgomery C. Meigs, the Union quartermaster during the Civil War, as an act of vengeance and contempt. Meigs held Lee personally responsible for the war and the fact that his son was one of its casualties, so he designated Lee’s property as a graveyard by the act of burying his son’s body almost literally at Lee’s doorstep. If an individual’s ideals and character lead to pain and death, if loyalty and integrity cause a person to embrace, as Ulysses S. Grant correctly termed Lee’s “cause,” “one of the worst for which a people ever fought, and one for which there was the least excuse,” then that individual isn’t ethical, and certainly is no hero.

That person is a fool.

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* There were many instances in Lee’s life when his character and values led to admirable conduct, of course. His immediate acceptance of responsibility for the failure of Pickett’s Charge was one, meeting his returning soldiers personally and exclaiming, “It was all my fault.” Another was his insistence that the Confederate army surrender rather than take to the hills in guerrilla resistance that might have extended the Civil War indefinitely. But noble conduct in the wake of a fiasco you created is never as admirable as avoiding the fiasco at the outset. It is just more obvious.

Act on Your Faith

In 1519, Spanish Conquistador Hernán Cortés  left Cuba with just over 500 soldiers on eleven ships to sail to Mexico and conquer the Aztec Empire. The promise of riches and glory that would ensure his place in history drove him to take on incredible odds. In fact, that same lure prompted the Governor of Cuba to revoke Cortés’ commission at the last minute, so he could have that glory all for himself. Cortés, knowing this was an opportunity of a lifetime embarked anyway, now under the threat of mutiny, with the loyalty of his men split with the Governor.

When they landed in Veracruz and saw the thick jungle and harsh conditions none of the men were focused on the conquest and some were conspiring to seize ships and return to Cuba. The story goes that Cortés gathered the men on the beach and ordered all the ships to be burned. Seeing the fleet destroyed they had only one option, to move forward, to succeed or die. Because there was no turning back, those men went on to conquer a nation.

If you study more about Cortés you soon learn that he is not an example of Christian character, but the legend of his ‘burning the boats’ is exactly the kind of resolve that Erasmus calls for in the second rule for the Christian Knight. You will recall that the first rule is to rely on your faith and increase it. The second rule is to act on that faith, with your whole heart, no matter the cost, with no turning back.

Here is an interpretation of Erasmus’ Rule #2. (Click here to see a direct translation of the Latin text).

Rely on the promises of God and act on them without hesitating.
The world suffers violence and a lazy man will be lost.
You must be ready to fight, with confidence, with purpose, with all your heart.
Resolve to act – even if it means you could lose everything.
Friends, possessions, status, personal comfort –let nothing stand in your way.
You must not turn back.

Act now – even if it seems a little reckless.
Flee from the things that are holding you back from fully pursuing your faith.
Don’t focus on what you are leaving behind, but on what is ahead.
Trust God, not yourself.
You cannot serve God and love the things in the world.
God wants you to be fully his.

There are only two paths for you to take.
The path to perdition;  following the comfort and pleasure of the world.
The path to life; following God – increasing your faith and acting in obedience.
There is no third path.
Few men walk the path that Christ took, the choice to please God.
Do not be deceived, you must choose.

There are many excuses:
I am not sure about God and life is too busy to think too much about it, or
I believe in God, but don’t really have time for the Bible or church, or
I go to church, pray and even read the Bible – but this message is too extreme for me, or
I am young, wealthy, have an important job –I have more pressing things to worry about, or
These things may have been important to the apostles, but not to me, not today.
These are all delusions. The truth is that nothing is more important than pursuing Christ.
The sky, earth and sea is the world for all of us,
But, if ambition, lust, desire for honor, authority or pleasure, are your world, you are lost.
Christ spoke indifferently to all men,
Whoever would not take up His cross and follow Him could not be His disciple.
If living by His Spirit is not important to you, dying for Christ does not pertain to you either.
If to be crucified, to be buried and to rise in Glory have no meaning to you, what does?
If his humility, poverty, persecution, labor and agony mean nothing, neither does His kingdom.

What could be more unfair than to expect the same reward as those who offer greater sacrifice?
It is foolish to expect great reward from Christ when you are not willing to suffer with Him now?
Do not flatter yourself by comparing yourself to others.
Dying to sin is nearly impossible, yet we are all sworn to it.
Whether a knight or a pauper there is no vow more sacred.
Even though we will never reach Christ-like perfection in life.
This is the goal we must strive for with your hands, feet and all your heart.
A Christian Knight’s actions must follow his heart and his heart must fully follow Christ.

For a biblical example Erasmus looks at Lot and the destruction of Sodom. Lot was a good man who lived in a bad city, a city that had gotten so evil that it had to be destroyed. Because Lot was righteous God allowed him to be spared and given just enough warning to save himself and his loved ones. Lot’s problem was, although a good man, he had become accustomed to the wealth and luxury of the city and he had drifted from God. He did not directly partake in the depravity around him, but he had become tolerant of it and influenced by it. Lot did not have an increasing faith, the opposite was true. Over time as he became immersed in the world his faith was relegated to a smaller and smaller part of his life and his godly influence on the people around him decreased with it.

Now Lot found himself faced with his ‘burn the boats’ moment. What God had to say was not a complex message that was difficult to apply to his life – his city was about to be destroyed, his family about to be killed, he had to act immediately or die. So he took the life-or-death warning to his sons-in-law and began paying the price for his lack of faith and influence, they laughed at him and he was ignored. Lot’s wife responded a little better by following him out of the city, but she longed for what was being left behind. She did not want to leave her life in the city – her boat had not burned – she tried to go back and was also lost.

Lot was a good man who got caught up in the world and it distracted him from God. His faith did not really matter to him until the end when it was too late. How different could things have been for Lot if he had been ‘walking his talk’ before the day he had to deliver that hard message?  The day that mattered most for Lot came up without warning and the cost for living in spiritual compromise was high. Your day may come without warning too. What do you need to do to begin to act on your faith? What are the things in your life that rival God for your heart? Do you need to leave some things behind? Is it time for you to burn some ships and move forward?

If you want to go deeper on this, I recommend this message from Scott Chapman, Senior Pastor at The Chapel (Lake County, IL). I don’t know what Scott knows of Erasmus, but 500 years apart they are preaching the same message. You can change the century but you can’t change the truth. You will also see where I borrowed the Cortés illustration, which Erasmus could not have used since it hadn’t quite happened for him yet.

Change from The Chapel on Vimeo.

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.  For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it.  What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?  Whoever is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.
Luke 9:23-26

Increase Your Faith

St. Augustine (354-430 AD) called prioritizing relationships in order of importance a ‘well ordered love.’  With priorities, something has to be most important; with order, something has to be first. What Augustine points out is that God wants us to make that Him, to place pursuing a growing relationship with Jesus above all else (see Pursue a Balanced Life – part 2). This is the principle behind the first rule in the the Manual of a Christian Knight. Knowing God and strengthening that relationship with an increasing faith is the foundation, not only for a Christian knight, but for a purposeful life.  So how do you know what that faith looks like and how should you go about increasing it? First, lets settle on a definition, then turn to Erasmus’ first rule for the details.

faith (feyth)
–noun
strong or unshakable belief in something, especially without proof or evidence.

Oswald Chambers (1874-1917), Scottish theologian and chaplain to troops in WWI, said, “Faith is deliberate confidence in the character of God whose ways you may not understand at the time.”  Knowing that God is real and that His word is reliable is hard amidst all the competing messages in the world. To live your life like you know it is even harder. Harder still is making the pursuit of that knowledge, with increasing faith, your life’s highest priority. This is the kind of radical faith we are being called to; a strong, unshakable, deliberate confidence in the character of God, even when you do not understand His ways and when the rest of the world says you are mad.

Here is an interpretation of Erasmus’ Rule #1 for the Christian knight. (Click here to see a direct translation of the Latin text).

Faith is the way to Christ and Scripture is reliable.
Your belief in this should not be weak lip service, like most people.
Have a faith that comes from the heart.
Know that every word of Scripture is important to your well being.

Put your faith in God, not in the world.
Most people live like heaven and hell are myths.
Even if most people tell you it is madness.
God cannot lie, what he  says is truth.

If you believe in God, you must believe what he says – confidently.
What you see and hear and touch is not as reliable as God’s word.
The prophets told of it, the blood of many martyrs proved it, it stands the test of time.
Christ became a man to fully reveal this truth.

Stir up a flame of faith and pursue God – ask God to increase your faith.
Increased faith will change you.
The greater your faith the less that vices and momentary pleasure will tempt you.
Not only will you be happier in life, you will be rewarded in eternity.

What has the most influence in forming your your view of the world? Does the wisdom of men and the influence of our culture hold more sway than God? Maybe you think they are incompatible, that the enlightenment of our modern age has made the Bible irrelevant. A collection of helpful stories and moral examples, but not reliable truth for every situation. As our world becomes increasingly convinced that we all got here without a creator and can live good and meaningful lives without Him, God is being increasingly marginalized. That has not changed in 500 years – it is precisely what Erasmus is warning us of. It was not true then, it is not true today, it will not be any more true tomorrow. In fact, the more you know about what God has to say and the stronger your connection to him, the more confident you will grow in your knowledge of the truth and the more your faith will increase.

So, how exactly do I increase my faith? Since God created each of us uniquely, the answer to this question is very likely different for you than for me. The journey toward an ‘increasing faith’, is just that, a journey. Increased faith is not a destination, rather a lifetime quest to follow God’s lead. You can be sure that He cares too much to let you stay where you are, if you are willing to follow, He will lead. To be prepared to follow, to find your individual answer to the ‘how’ question, you must understand yourself.

John Ortberg has written an excellent book called The Me I Want to Be: Becoming God’s Best Version of You. In Chapter Four, How to Grow, Ortberg says, “Spiritual growth is hand-crafted, not mass produced. God does not do one-size-fits-all,” and then he identifies some key questions to ask yourself.

  • What brings me life? To make growth sustainable you need to identify the ways that you are energized.
  • What is my temperament? Are you an introvert, extrovert, thinker, feeler?
  • What is my pathway? Where and how do you experience God?
  • What is my learning style? Everyone has a love of learning, but you need to identify your style to unlock it.
  •  What is my signature sin? Identify what is holding you back and learn how to break free.
  •  What is my season in life? What you need to continue to grow will will change as you grow.

If you were hoping for an easy answer like ’read your Bible more’ or ‘go to church on Sunday,’ the journey to increasing faith is a bit more complicated, a journey to more fully understanding God can only begin by tackling personal questions like Ortberg poses. There are other good resources available, but The Me I Want to Be comes with a very useful online assessment. I highly recommend this as a first step in your journey.

The last word on this will be His.

My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.
Proverb 3:1-8

 

The Christian Soldier

 “The General hopes and trusts, that every officer and man, will endeavour so to live, and act, as becomes a Christian Soldier defending the dearest Rights and Liberties of his country.” General Orders, (July 9, 1776) George Washington Papers at the Library of Congress.

As we celebrate our country’s 235th birthday I was thinking about these words delivered at the start of the Revolutionary War. How important are Christian soldiers to our freedom and our success as a nation? 

Despite the story, which inspired the painting Prayer at Valley Forge, that we thought confirmed his faith, the question of whether or not George Washington was actually a Christian is uncertain. That story, which is now generally believed to be myth, goes that Washington was discovered praying at Valley Forge by Quaker and pacifist Isaac Potts who believed that “no man could be a soldier and a Christian at the same time. But seeing George Washington on this day convinced me of my mistake.” 

The truth is that Washington was vague about his faith, perhaps intentionally evasive. Thomas Jefferson, who was keenly interested in the question, observed that Washington never said a word to the public about his personal religion. In fact, Jefferson noted in his diary that ‘the old fox was too cunning’ to be pinned down on the topic. (If you are interested in more on this, I recommend Was America Founded as a Christian Nation, by John Fea) . There may be room for debate on Washington’s personal faith, but his conviction that Christian character was essential for soldiers and for the good of the nation is evident, and he was not alone.

In 1941, Winston Churchill and President Franklin Roosevelt met aboard the battleship HMS Prince of Wales to issue the Atlantic Charter, an agreement that would lay a foundation for the Allied alliance in World War II. A church service was held onboard and one of the hymns chosen by Prime Minister Churchill was Onward Christian Soldiers. Reflecting on that song, Churchill said, “I looked upon that densely packed congregation of fighting men of the same language, of the same faith, of the same fundamental laws, of the same ideals … it swept across me that here was the only hope, but also the sure hope, of saving the world from measureless degradation.”

Churchill was talking about ‘fighting men’ whose Christian faith was the only hope, the sure hope, to save the world. Washington was talking about the importance of Christian character in defending the rights and liberties of the country. Jesus himself encountered the earliest recorded Christian soldier when he met the Roman Centurion in Capernaum. Jesus said of the Centurion, “not even in Israel have I found such faith” (Luke 7:9). 

Okay, so the Christian soldier is established through history. But what does it mean to act and live like a Christian soldier in 1776? What are the laws and ideals that were the sure hope of the world in 1941? What was it about the Centurion’s faith that impressed Jesus in the first century? What does it mean today, and are these things still important? These questions were asked and answered in the sixteenth century in The Handbook for the Christian Soldier* published in 1503 by a contemporary of Martin Luther by the name of Desiderius Erasmus. In this work Erasmus defines 22 rules for the Christian soldier, which are worth taking a closer look at.

As you celebrate the Fourth of July this year please consider the importance of the Christian Knight, the Righteous Protector in securing and maintaining our freedom. I hope you will join me in the next few articles exploring, understanding and then applying Erasmus’ 22 rules. I think you will find them as relevant today as when they were written.

* Also translated from the latin, Enchiridion Militis Christiani, as The Manual for the Christian Knight, or The Guide for the Righteous Protector.

Surrounded by Temptation

“Residents should know that we hold each member to the highest ethical and professional standard and when allegations of misconduct occur, they will be thoroughly investigated. It is what our community expects and deserves; furthermore it is what we expect and deserve of ourselves.”
Brian King, Wilmette, Illinois Police Chief, May 5, 2011

A truism that you would expect from a police chief, but a statement that is not usually made unless something has gone wrong, and in Wilmette, something did. As a result, an 11-year veteran of the police department, who is also a 20-year military vet who served in Iraq, was charged with Official Misconduct and Theft. Officer Diane Grassi, 47, has lost her career and now faces prison over an allegation that she took $250.

According to reports it began last September when Officer Grassi made an arrest for DUI. When booking was finished she allegedly told the arrested that he was required to pay $250 for his release. After the money was collected the man was released on a personal recognizance bond, a process that requires no money. The $250 disappears, the sobered up drunk complains, a video of money being counted and changing hands surfaces, an investigation begins, an officer resigns and then charges are filed.

 Before you shake your head or point a finger, you should ask how? How does someone who has spent so many years in the service of her country and community lose it all over $250, and how can you be sure that it will never be you? We will probably never know the answers in this particular case, but it should serve as a powerful reminder that temptation is all around us and you do not have to look far to see the casualties it causes. While this may be a situation you could never see yourself in, take an opportunity to examine yourself for areas where you may be vulnerable. How many details of this story would have to change before you might be tempted?

  • What if there was no deception required and the money were simply left behind? What if you knew the drunk were wealthy and the money would never be missed? What if that $250 was the precise amount you needed to pay an outstanding medical bill on its way to collections? Would it be easier for you to inconspicuously pick it up?
  • What if it is not a drunk, but a drug dealer, a real bad guy. Maybe you have recovered thousands of dollars in drug money and the $250 you need for that bill would never be noticed. Is it easier to imagine taking care of yourself, just this once?
  • What if you just found the money in the street? If there were no way to find the owner and it just happens to be the exact amount you need for that bill? Is that an easier bridge to cross?
  • What if a crime victim you have helped wants to show their appreciation by giving you a little something? Your resist, they insist. You know it is wrong, but their gratitude is sincere and that $250 is just what it will take to keep you out of a jam with the creditors. The likelihood that anyone will find out is slim. Even if it were discovered, you would be in some trouble, but it won’t make headlines and your career would probably survive. Could that be the time?

The point is that life surrounds us with all kinds of temptation and we are all vulnerable. We all have a point where we need help resisting temptation, and that includes you. Out there somewhere is the set of circumstances that you will fall to without support. If you don’t have someone to talk to about things like this you should find someone. Talk to a partner or someone you trust about this case, about temptation, explore your breaking point. Open a conversation and agree to hold one another accountable when you feel temptation gripping you. A friend like that could save your career, or theirs.

Were their signs along the way before Officer Grassi made headlines? Could a friend with the courage to say something to her when they saw those signs have made a difference? We will never know, but when we see a brother or sister fall and do not use it as an opportunity to check our own hearts we have failed ourselves.

Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8

Courageous

An invitation to a prescreening of a major motion picture is not something that happens to me often. Okay, so it has actually never happened before Tuesday night when a friend asked if I wanted to tag along to an advance showing of “Courageous,” a cop movie scheduled for release on September 30th. You should know that the invite did not come from a law enforcement friend, but from a pastor, which was a clue that this was not going to be a typical cop flick.

The synopsis of the film goes like this:
As law enforcement officers, Adam Mitchell, Nathan Hayes, and their partners are confident and focused. They willingly stand up to the worst the world can offer. Yet at the end of the day, they face a challenge that none of them are truly prepared to tackle: fatherhood.

While they consistently give their best on the job, good enough seems to be all they can muster as dads. But they’re quickly discovering that their standard is missing the mark.

They know that God desires to turn the hearts of fathers to their children, but their children are beginning to drift further and further away from them. Will they be able to find a way to serve and protect those that are most dear to them?

When tragedy hits home, these men are left wrestling with their hopes, their fears, their faith, and their fathering. Can a newfound urgency help these dads draw closer to God … and to their children?

Courageous is from Sherwood Pictures, the same group that delivered Fireproof and Facing the Giants. If you liked those, you are really going to like this one. This movie works; the action scenes have a real feel, the jokes will make you laugh out loud and there are scenes that brought men in the theater, discreetly, to tears. If you are a Dad you will almost certainly relate to one of the five main characters. These five, all in various stages of fatherhood, four of them cops, resolve to be better fathers and then struggle to keep their commitments and hold one another accountable to them. The Courageous message is Robert Lewis’ Men’s Fraternity and a Promise Keepers conference packed into an entertaining and compelling movie. It is an important message that every Dad needs and this movie brings it very well.

But, no matter how good the message, it is often hard for me to watch police movies without dwelling on those painful moments when tactics or procedures become ridiculuous or cheap cop stereotypes appear excrutiatingly on screen. You know those scenes – when you discover how little the moviemaker knows about police officers or law enforcement and didn’t care enough to listen to a cop before putting goofiness on film. I was pleasantly suprised that Courageous does not have this problem. Building searches on screen always bug me, so I won’t even mention that, and the big gunfight would have gone a whole lot better if just one squad car had a shotgun or rifle in it, but that is still a real problem for officers in some places. The only time the movie really departed tactical reality was with “the slingshot.” Watch for this one, but don’t try it at work, unless you are more interested in a workers comp claim than catching a bad guy.

Courageous is to fatherhood what Fireproof is to marriage, and I highly recommend it. Get a group of men together and go see this one on September 30th, you will not be disappointed.

Staying the Path

Richard Thomas, Chief of the North Ridgeville, Ohio, Police Department, recently made these comments to a graduating Police Academy class.

It is an honor to join with you in celebrating such a notable career event as this graduation from a long and demanding police academy. It is appropriate that we take a moment to reflect on the hard work and sacrifice that it takes to complete such a course of instruction. It bears mentioning here that the hard work was borne not only by the students but by their families. Through the years, it has become very apparent to me that a key element for most of us in law enforcement, if we wish to have a productive and satisfying career, is a supportive and understanding family. I commend you for the support you have and will continue to provide to these graduates in those difficult times that inevitably will lie ahead. The graduates themselves are justifiably proud of what they have accomplished, as they should be, and all should take this time to bask in the warmth of their success.

Upon reflecting on what success really is, a noted 19th century writer, Elbert Hubbard, once remarked, “All success consists in this: You are doing something for somebody—benefiting humanity—and the feeling of success comes from the consciousness of this.” For those who seek a life in public service, such success is a truly rewarding experience.

Invariably, when I ask young police applicants why they want to become an officer, they almost uniformly relate to me their desire to help others, to give something back to the community, and to stand up for those who cannot do so for themselves. These are, without a doubt, laudable motivations and exactly what a chief wants to hear. However, I suspect the thought of pursuit driving, playing with neat police gadgets, and breaking up bar fights also factors into their quest to become a police officer.

Notwithstanding the less mentioned and more exciting aspects of this particular vocation, I would like to take a moment to speak briefly to the graduates about that one special trait that will serve you well throughout your career and without which you never will be able to lay claim to a career worth mentioning in respectable company. By and large, those who seek to enter the ranks of law enforcement officers are people of good virtue with pure motives and an abiding sense of duty and honor. They tend to be caring and compassionate people, generally of above-average intelligence, and willing to face life’s challenges head-on.

Today, many of you are taking the beginning steps down what may be an exhilarating, often satisfying, yet, at times, frustrating and frequently difficult path of a law enforcement officer. The fact that you will face many difficulties and hardships should in no way dissuade you from pursuing this goal, for, as the poet William Cullen Bryant so eloquently stated, “Difficulty, my brethren, is the nurse of greatness—a harsh nurse who roughly rocks her foster children into strength and athletic proportion.” Could it be, I wonder, that your physical fitness instructors had this thought uppermost in their minds when they prepared for your fitness training? Was this a prominent theme in the minds of your self-defense instructors as they drilled you again and again on the more subtle but painful points ofsubject control?

In the years ahead, you who would now raise your hand and take the oath to serve and protect on behalf of the masses will be faced with challenges of the conscience and the spirit that will test your mettle and will either serve to harden your resolve to stay the path of righteousness or bend you in ways large or small that will collectively diminish us as a professional body and tarnish our proverbial shield. If it can be assumed that we as police administrators have done our jobs properly and have hired the right people—decent and honest, brave and dedicated—and provided them with the necessary training and tools they need to accomplish the tasks that lie before them, then what trait is so crucial that it should take center stage on a day such as this?

I submit to you that this trait is character, defined in the Oxford American Dictionary as “moral strength…the qualities that make a person what he or she is and different from others.” Ladies and gentlemen, for almost 30 years, it has been my honor to work in and amongst law enforcement officers, and I can tell you without equivocation that they are indeed a breed apart. They do a job that is understood by so few and critiqued by so many. And, to do this job well, they all require an abundance of character.

Part of what makes police work so unique, challenging, and satisfying is that to a large extent, it is a solitary endeavor. Officers handle calls and engage the public in any number of varied solo encounters. There is no production schedule to adhere to; there is no manual that can be written to cover every situation and every contingency. It is the officer’s wit, training, and desire to succeed and serve honorably that guide the majority of these day-to-day engagements. The potential for abuse always is present: the chance to gain personally at another’s expense, to wield power over another in an unscrupulous manner, to take advantage of the weak or the wicked, to exact revenge, or to extort goods or services.

It is sound character that thwarts such temptations, character that individuals must bring on board when they join the agency and hone and strengthen as they navigate the treacherous waters of enticement. It is not a trait that can be issued to new officers or a technique they can learn at some advanced school. As former Congresswoman Helen Douglas once said, “Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action. If one lets fear or hate or anger take possession of the mind, they become self-forged chains.” Or, perhaps more succinctly, as the educator and evangelist Dwight L. Moody once put it, “Character is what you are in the dark.

Listen to me and believe me when I tell you that it is during those crucial and pivotal times that lie ahead, when no one is looking and no one may ever know what transpired, that it will be your irreproachable character that will allow you to stand tall and proud in the bright and penetrating light of public, judicial, and professional scrutiny. Character will see you through hard and difficult times. Character will draw others to you as they seek to follow your example and measure up to your standards. Character will allow you to admit when you have made a mistake and will give you the resolve to stand fast in the face of improper influences that could damage you or your agency. Character is why you will be trusted with difficult and sensitive assignments. Character will set you apart as a leader, irrespective of any rank you may have obtained. And, character, once lost, might never again be regained.

As the great American author Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote so many years ago, “Self-trust is the essence of heroism.” I would submit to you that to be heroic, one must be able to trust themselves to stand unyielding in the face of temptation, no matter the form it takes, and to always do the right thing.

You graduates are about to embark on a career that is filled with so many great and unique possibilities for you to serve your communities with honor and distinction. Cherish this time, make the most of the opportunities that lie ahead of you. Commit yourselves, as I am sure most of you already have, to make a positive difference in your agencies and the communities you will be serving.

I can assure you, the experience will pass all too quickly, and when you get to the end of this road, you are sure to find, as Walt Whitman wrote, “Nothing endures but personal qualities.” Let it then be said of you collectively that you were people of quality with abiding character who walked the path less traveled and served in a manner commanding the respect of the public.

To this class, I would entreat that you take to heart the lessons of survival you were given during your many hours of instruction and add to those my heartfelt desire that for all your tours of duty, you return home safely and whole in body each and every night. And, that your spirit remain pure and dedicated to the noble values that now guide your course.

A Spoke in the Wheel

I just finished Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy a great biography of a life worthy of examination. If you do not know Deitrich Bonhoeffer, you should become familiar with his life. Eric Metaxas’ look at his transition from theologian to conspirator in the plot to assassinate Adolf Hitler is excellent. The process of that transition during perhaps the most challenging time in contemporary history is important reading for anyone looking for insight on applying Christian ethics to life today. The principles that drove Bonhoffer’s decisions were sometimes controversial but provided him remarkable clarity when so many others were being fooled by a charismatic tyrant.

In 1933, within days of Hitler’s election as chancellor of Germany and years before he would become The Führer, the 26 year old Bonhoeffer lectured on the Führer Principle. Although not specifically about Hitler he prophetically warned how this altered concept of leadership would inevitably lead to an idol and a “mis-leader” unable to be held accountable. His prophetic view of the future of German leadership was only the beginning. Before the full nature of the Nazi regime had been revealed Bonhoeffer wrote of “the three ways in which the church can act towards the state:” 

  1. Help the State be the State. Question the State regarding its actions and their legitimacy to help the State be as God ordained.
  2. Aid the victims of State action. The Church has an unconditional obligation to the victims of any ordering of society – even if they do not belong to the Christian community.
  3. When the existence of the Church is threatened and the State ceases to exist as defined by God, it is not enough to bandage the victims under the wheel, but to put a spoke in the wheel itself.

These controversial principles paved the way for Bonhoeffer to move from confession to political resistance to conspiracy. Between 1933 and 1945 Bonhoeffer’s “three ways” was the blueprint for an increasing political resistance. At a time when patriotism and restoration of national pride after WWI was seducing a nation Bonhoeffer saw the mistreatment of the Jews and the undermining of the Church as the State going astray and spoke out against the Reich Church as it departed from the Gospel. As the situation worsened he spoke out against the Nazis and became directly involved in assisting the oppressed victims of the State. Finally he reached the point where aiding victims was not enough and the moral imperative was to “put a spoke in the wheel” and participate in the conspiracy to assassinate Hitler that led to his own execution in the closing weeks of WWII.   

We have been silent witnesses of evil deeds; we have been drenched by many storms; we have learnt the arts of equivocation and pretence; experience has made us suspicious of others and kept us from being truthful and open; intolerable conflicts have worn us down and even made us cynical. Are we still of any use? What we shall need is not geniuses, or cynics, or misanthropes, or clever tacticians, but plain, honest, and straightforward men. Will our inward power of resistance be strong enough, and our honesty with ourselves remorseless enough, for us to find our way back to simplicity and straightforwardness?
— Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Bonhoeffer’s life is worth examining by any student of Christian discipleship.